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Trying to Conceive: Why Pregnancy May Be Taking Longer and Where to Start

September 18, 2026 · 3,028 views
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"We've been trying for months, but I'm still not pregnant."
"My periods are irregular. Could that be affecting my chances?"
"My AMH is low. Can I still get pregnant?"
"My wife's tests look mostly normal. Should I be tested too?"

These are common questions during a fertility journey. Month after month of waiting can create a cycle of hope, disappointment, anxiety, and searching for something that will make pregnancy happen quickly.

Before looking for one product or one solution, it helps to understand a fundamental point: conception depends on several biological steps working together. A barrier may involve the female partner, the male partner, both partners, or sometimes no clear cause is identified immediately.

Pregnancy requires several steps to work together

In simple terms: an egg develops and is released → sperm reaches the egg → fertilization occurs → the embryo travels toward the uterus → implantation occurs.

That is why a fertility evaluation should not focus on only one number, one organ, or one partner.

Common barriers considered when pregnancy is taking longer

1. Irregular or absent ovulation

If ovulation does not happen regularly, there may be fewer opportunities for conception. Irregular menstrual cycles are one reason a clinician may look more closely at ovulation. PCOS is one of several conditions associated with ovulatory dysfunction.

2. Age and ovarian reserve

Female age is an important fertility factor. Ovarian reserve may also be evaluated in certain situations, but tests such as AMH need to be interpreted correctly. A low AMH result does not mean "you cannot get pregnant," and AMH is not a direct measure of egg quality. Results should be considered together with age and the clinical picture.

3. Fallopian tube factors

For natural conception, sperm must be able to reach the egg and the resulting embryo must travel toward the uterus. Problems involving the fallopian tubes can interfere with this pathway and require appropriate medical testing to assess.

4. Uterine or pelvic factors

Depending on the individual, clinicians may consider uterine conditions, endometriosis, fibroids, pelvic history, or other structural factors. Whether a specific finding affects fertility depends on its location, severity, and the individual case.

5. Male-factor fertility

This is frequently overlooked. A man can feel healthy and have normal sexual function while still having abnormal semen parameters. Semen analysis can provide information about sperm concentration/count, motility, morphology, and other parameters. Read more in our guide to men's fertility support.

6. Timing and frequency of intercourse

Sometimes there is no obvious medical problem, but intercourse is not occurring during the fertile window. This can be particularly difficult to estimate when the woman has irregular cycles. Understanding ovulation can help couples time intercourse without turning conception into an excessively stressful schedule.

7. Lifestyle factors in both partners

Smoking, heavy alcohol use, poor nutrition, inadequate sleep, some environmental exposures, and overall health can all be relevant. The goal should be sustainable health improvements rather than searching for one "fertility hack."

8. Medical conditions and medications

Certain health conditions or medications may be relevant to fertility. Both partners should share their medical history, surgeries, medications, supplements, pregnancy history, and previous test results with their healthcare professional. Do not stop prescribed medication simply because you are trying to conceive without first speaking to the prescribing clinician.

9. Sometimes no clear cause is identified right away

Not every couple receives one clear explanation after a few tests. This does not mean the problem is "just stress." Age, duration of trying, test results, reproductive history, and each couple's circumstances help guide the next step.

Couple sitting together, quietly supporting each other during the fertility journey

When is it time to seek a fertility evaluation?

In general, fertility evaluation is commonly recommended after 12 months of regular unprotected intercourse without pregnancy when the female partner is under 35, and after about 6 months when she is 35 or older. For women over 40, or when a condition known to affect fertility is already present, earlier evaluation may be appropriate.

Couples should also consider seeking help earlier when there are very irregular or absent periods, known ovulation problems, suspected uterine or tubal disease, endometriosis, or a known male reproductive concern.

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Five practical steps for couples who are trying to conceive

Step 1 — Consider how long you have been trying

How many months have you been having regular unprotected intercourse? The answer matters, especially when considered alongside the female partner's age.

Step 2 — Track the woman's menstrual cycle

Are cycles predictable? Are periods skipped? How long is a typical cycle? These details can provide useful context. Read more in our guide to women's fertility support.

Step 3 — Look at both partners' health

Do not ask only what may be happening with the woman. Review the male partner's reproductive and general health as well.

Step 4 — Gather existing test results

If you have already had AMH testing, hormone testing, ultrasound, semen analysis, or other evaluations, keep the results together. The overall picture is usually more informative than focusing on one result.

Step 5 — Seek professional help at the right time

If you have reached the point when evaluation is recommended, or if there are known concerns, do not delay medical assessment solely to keep trying different products at home. Supplements may support nutrition or wellness according to their intended use, but they do not replace diagnosis or fertility treatment when medical care is needed.

Fertility should be a journey for two

Instead of a pattern where the woman takes multiple products, tracks ovulation, completes every test, and carries the monthly emotional pressure while the man changes very little, couples can take a shared approach:

Understand the situation → Prepare both partners' health → Get evaluated when appropriate → Improve lifestyle → Choose relevant support → Continue monitoring the journey.

This is why AGO Fertility Care is positioned around supporting both women's and men's reproductive health rather than focusing on only one partner.

How long have you been trying to conceive?

If you are reading this because pregnancy has not happened yet, you can start by sharing a few basic details with AGO Fertility Care:

  • How old is the female partner?
  • Are her menstrual cycles regular?
  • How long have you been trying to conceive?
  • Has either partner been diagnosed with a reproductive-health condition?
  • Has the female partner had AMH testing, hormone testing, or ultrasound?
  • Has the male partner had a semen analysis?

Start with your fertility story: share your journey → identify the issues worth paying attention to → receive information about support options relevant to both partners.

AGO Fertility Care can help you organize your fertility information and understand possible next steps, while medical concerns that require diagnosis or treatment should be addressed directly with a qualified healthcare professional.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is it normal for pregnancy to take several months?
Yes. Many healthy couples take several months to conceive, and most conceive within a year of regular, unprotected sex. Taking longer than expected is common and doesn't automatically mean something is wrong.
What can we do to improve our chances naturally?
Learn when you ovulate, have sex every one to two days during your fertile window, aim for a healthy weight, avoid smoking, limit alcohol, and start a folic acid supplement. Both partners' health matters.
Should both partners be checked if pregnancy is taking longer?
Yes. Male factors play a role in a significant share of fertility challenges, so checking both partners early gives a clearer picture and can save time and stress.
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